Wednesday, November 9, 2016

It's Already Started

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change, though the mountains shake in the heart of the sea; though its waters roar and foam, though the mountains tremble with its tumult.
- From Psalm 46

Just like that, it’s started… Y’all don’t have to believe me, but I have receipts. This morning I made the following post:



            It was all going well until I received the following email from a “concerned reader” of my columns and a person I haven’t been in contact with since high school

Rob,
We have known each other for years but I just wanted to let you know that I am disappointed that you have now started to attack Christians that love our country. I honestly have no idea why you would support a racist and bigoted candidate like Hillary but it is your business not mine. 

Christians have now saved America from a baby killing pro homosexual administration. I highly doubt you will even read this but I will pray for you. A friend forwarded me your comments on the results and that type of bigotry you displayed should never come from a Christian's mouth. Pray for you leaders. We are blessed to have President-Elect Donald Trump. Change your tune, God's will has been shown. God bless. 

Best Regards,

Now I know I am a cis-gender, straight, white, middle class male on his way to a master’s degree in theological studies but I am concerned because if I can receive an email like that from someone, what might others receive today in the light of President-Elect Trump? If it means anything to anyone, as a baptized person my parents committed to resist evil, injustice, and oppression in any forms that they present themselves. As an ordained minister of the Gospel, I am accountable to God in a different but similar way. I use my voice and whatever privilege I have for the in-breaking of God’s kingdom.
That means that I’m accustomed to getting flack for what I do. But this time, in a moment of personal lament on social media in a community I have come to love I was criticized by a fellow Christian. Well if that is what this person’s definition of Christian concern is I want nothing to do with it. We all have work to do but we must allow for moments of frustration and holy anger to come out.
 I’m not sure I have a response for this person but I’m going to say this: do not try to justify this outcome with any other moniker than the fact that a person has come to power whose very presidency threatens so many now has the power to destroy with nuclear bombs, deport with deportation squads, and build a wall bigger than his ego.
But I do commit to pray, because that’s all I have. I will pray for the next president with fervor, but I will also call him to task when he begins his policies that will affect so many I have come to love. Who knows, perhaps this is our nation’s moment to show that we will not be quiet when we have been told to shut up. This is our greatest challenge and our bounden duty. I’m praying for our nation today, and you should too.

Sunday, October 9, 2016

Lovers In Dangerous Times: A Sermon Preached by Rob Lee

Jeremiah 29:1, 4-7
A Sermon Preached by the Reverend Rob Lee
Bethesda Presbyterian Church
October 9th, 2016 | The 21st Sunday after Pentecost

Won’t you pray with me?
            Here I raise mine Ebenezer, hither by thy help I’m come. And I hope by thy good pleasure safely to arrive at home. Jesus sought us when a stranger wandering from the fold of God, he to rescue us from danger interposed his precious blood. May I speak in the name of him who interposed his blood for us. In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Amen.

            This past week, my fiancĂ©e’s company lost a co-worker to addiction. The realities of this complex issue of dying to addiction have played out in Stephanie’s life now twice, one in her place of business and the other with her best friend’s brother, and Stephanie and I were sitting with one another after the funeral and she asked me a question about the intricacies of life, death, and God’s place in it all. I didn’t have an answer, and I was ashamed that I didn’t. I mean, I’m a second year divinity school student at one of the most prestigious universities in the county, shouldn’t they be teaching these things? And I couldn’t even offer comfort to the person who I want to spend the rest of my life with. I ask you to hold that image of me being totally and completely lost when asked a question about faith as we move through today’s lesson. We’ll get back to it, I promise.
            I have two friends who I’ve gotten to know pretty well over the past year. I have the privilege of officiating their wedding next August. But if we had lived in the South before 1967 when the Supreme Court struck down the laws barring interracial marriage, this couple could not get married. In my counseling with them preparing for the marriage I asked some initial questions and pondered with them if it would be hard today to be in an interracial marriage in 2016. While we agreed that times have certainly changed since the Jim Crow South, they still are the victim of comments and jokes that strike at a very real reality: We live in dangerous, and unsettling times.
            I don’t have to tell you about our presidential campaign, where hate is being spewed and bigotry uplifted as a means to degrade an opponent. I don’t have to tell you about police violence, I don’t have to tell you about the streets of Chicago. I don’t have to tell you about how the Presbyterian Church is still dealing with the fallout over the gay marriage debate. Now before you tune me out as a rebel rouser who is just here to stir the pot, let me offer you these words from Jeremiah and then I promise I will be a good preacher and know when to sit down.
            Nebuchadnezzar believes he is a god, much like some of our politicians believe. He has taken the Israelites into exile in Babylon and all hope is lost. In Psalm 137 when they talk about the exile by the rivers of Babylon the Psalmist writes, “There we sat down and there we wept when we remembered Zion. On the willows there we hung up our harps. For there our captors asked us for songs, and our tormentors asked for mirth, saying, ‘Sing us one of the songs of Zion!’ How could we sing the Lord’s song in a foreign land?”
            Perhaps you’ve been in this situation, perhaps you’ve felt so far from the love of God that you yourself could not love. This is precisely where we meet the Israelite people today, and this is precisely where we find our country and Church today. We are broken, we are in exile, and we are defeated. The great recession left our nation broken economically, two of the longest wars this nation has seen have left our nation’s spirit broken, and to compound all of that, racism is rearing its head in the ugliest way since that of the Jim Crow laws. And we the church have failed miserably in this exile. We are broken, bruised, and bloodied from low attendance, poor financial planning, and failed church polity. We have buried our heads in the sand and hoping this stuff will pass. So where is the good news in all of this? Where is God in exile?
            God is in Babylon. I think the beautiful part if there is any beautiful part about the exile story in Jeremiah is that though God’s Spirit may have rested in Jerusalem, God was fully with the people by the waters in Babylon. God sent Jeremiah as a prophet to remind the people to love where they are, and love the people they are around, even if they don’t look like you, sound like you, and act like you. You see people will tell you that Nebuchadnezzar is God when the Israelites are in exile, and God has news for Babylon: God will restore the fortunes of Zion. As one of my seminary professors said, “The Babylonians don’t know the rest of the story.”
            My friends if the Babylonians have taken you into exile how are you responding? If you are faced with crippling debt in an uncertain economy, if your son or daughter has gone off to war, if your political party of choice has taken a turn for hate how are you going to act? Jeremiah makes it clear: Pray for the welfare of the city you have been exiled to. That doesn’t mean that you give up what God has given you, it means simply and directly you live in this world and you have to make the best of it.
            If you don’t believe me, look to the Apostle Paul. Paul makes it clear that our citizenship is in heaven and not on earth, we’re exiled here and now. Though we are here we are destined for something different. Now Paul took it to a new level and warned people not to marry due to that impending citizenship of heaven, but I think Paul, for all of his faults, does a good job of saying “Do not be conformed to the image of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds.”
            I want to caution you though, in this Pauline reading of scripture sometimes we get so heavenly minded that we do no earthly good. I think that God of the whole of creation, the God revealed in Jesus Christ in the incarnation and sustained by the Holy Spirit at Pentecost wants Christians, you and me to pray for the welfare of the city in which we have been planted. We must be lovers in dangerous times.
            Now you may ask what does that mean? Well that line, lovers in a dangerous time comes from a song that has lyrics such as these, “You’ve got to kick at the darkness until it bleeds daylight.” You’ve got to plant yourself here, at Bethesda Presbyterian Church and pray for the welfare of your city. You’ve got to plant gardens, and take husbands and wives. God wants you to thrive.
            In my own denomination, the United Methodist Church we are going through a debate that the Presbyterian Church had a few years back surrounding human sexuality. And in the midst of the debate, not speaking to the merits of either side, I just wish both sides would pray for the welfare of our city, pray for the welfare of our denomination. I wish we would break bread with one another, and drink wine. I wish we would gather at a table and instead of throwing insults we would pray and plant gardens.
            Don’t hear me wrong, we have real issues in our time, this is a dangerous time with real problems. But we must be lovers, we must be people who love in fellowship, friendship, policy and understanding. I promise you, if you pray for the welfare of another person who may torment your very soul, your reality will change. For God redeemed us through Jesus Christ, so that we might plant gardens in exile. To be a lover in a dangerous time is to be lost in wonder, love, and praise as that old hymn goes. This is true, even as our churches are failing and dying in mass numbers.
            I have a book coming out here in a month or so, it’s a book on Millennials, people my age who are investing their lives in the institutional church like I am. I don’t know about Bethesda Presbyterian but many of the churches I have encountered are nervous about their future and whether the church will be committed to posterity. Well I want to offer you this: don’t be nervous.
 In my book I interview a friend named Rhody, and in our interview I asked Rhody why she is giving her life to a dying organization like the Church. She said something profound, she said, “There are some holy things, quite simply, that one cannot get outside of the Church. While I can drink wine in community with friends and call it fellowship, I cannot access the sanctified blood of Christ at any ole’ vineyard. While I can bake bread with my grandmother and feel that these moments with her are sacred, I cannot partake of the body of Jesus in her kitchen. And while I can marvel at how clean and renewed I feel as I step out of the shower and call the sensation a moment of grace, I cannot baptize myself. There are moments of fellowship, sacredness, and grace throughout our daily lives, and for these moments, thanks be to God. But I do not believe that these moments are substitutionary for Church and the ways we are blessed specifically through it. And if it is indeed, as you say, a dying organization, then I will sit by her bedside as she moans in pain. I will wear my Easter dress to her funeral and attend with wet, braided hair so that I will feel in all of her looming dampness what she has done for me.”      
Friends, these are dangerous and unsettling times for the church. To borrow from an old song of Americana, the old gray mare, she ain’t what she used to be. We are in exile, and we’ve done it to ourselves much like the Israelites did. But take heart, because what you don’t get in today’s lectionary text is the verse that follows immediately after that.
God says through Jeremiah, “Only when Babylon’s seventy years are completed will I visit you, and I will fulfill to you my promise and bring you back to [Zion].[1] For surely I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope.” If I can offer anything to you today, to you who are lovers in dangerous times, “kick at the darkness until bleeds daylight.” God has not brought us this far to leave the Church here alone. And that is the greatest and fullest hope we have.   
Back to that theological question Stephanie asked me that I couldn’t answer about the realities of life, death, and God’s place in it all. I won’t bother you with the intricacies of the question or theological platitudes that seek to explain away our exile here on earth or why bad things happen to good people, why my friends have to worry about the comments made due to their marriage, or why addiction is even a word in our vocabulary.
But what I do know is this: we are lovers in exile, we are people whom God will visit and bring to the land that God has promised. Take God for God’s word. Keep the faith, and be lovers in dangerous times. Because in our love, in our time, in our sacred space, we will find the welfare of the city we are exiled to, this, our island home. All glory, honor, and power be to the one who was, who is, and who is to come. AMEN.






[1] Zion in here inserted instead of “This place” for clarity.

Saturday, September 10, 2016

On World Suicide Prevention Day, It's Time to Be Real

Rogier Van Der Weyden's Deposition from the Cross speaks to the reality of grief and pain experienced in death.

            I remember it like it was yesterday, the day after my uncle committed suicide. My little brother got in the car with me at afterschool pickup and announced that Uncle John was in hell because he committed suicide. When mom asked where in the hell he got that from, Scott replied a teacher at our private Christian school had told him that. I credit that day being the day my theological wheels started turning. I wanted nothing to do with a god who would condemn his child, our beloved John to hell because of John’s illness and an action he took against himself. Little did I know that I too would face the reality of suicide personally.
There are some things in life that have been deemed unavoidable such as taxes and death. Unfortunately, some of us wish death to come by our own means and ways. We are in such a dark position and place that nothing can break into the darkness. No person or prayer can keep people from that darkness. And some of us wear the scars of suicide attempts either physically or mentally, some of us succeed and die far too soon.
            So on this World Suicide Prevention Day (September 10th) I want to remind you of the words of Scripture that I have come to know for myself. Romans 8 has this to say,
What then are we to say about these things? If God is for us, who is against us? He who did not withhold his own Son, but gave him up for all of us, will he not with him also give us everything else? Who will bring any charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies. Who is to condemn? It is Christ Jesus, who died, yes, who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, who indeed intercedes for us. Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will hardship, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? As it is written, “For your sake we are being killed all day long; we are accounted as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
There is nothing, no one, no principality or power that can keep us from God’s love. If you are facing the dark abyss of suicide know that God stands with you and is for you. God gave us tools to face these realities, friends, family, clergy, psychologists, and psychiatrists, so use them to the best of your ability and fight the situation you are in. And when it seems like you can’t fight anymore lean into God and your support system to live on and live fully. This is easier said than done of course. But God is bigger than what we face, and we have the capacity to fight the dark reality of suicide.
            St. Francis De Sales (1567-1622) has this prayer I offer up today on World Suicide Prevention Day, “Be at Peace. Do not look forward in fear to the changes of life; rather look to them with full hope as they arise. God, whose very own you are, will deliver you from out of them. He has kept you hitherto, and He will lead you safely through all things; and when you cannot stand it, God will bury you in his arms. Do not fear what may happen tomorrow; the same everlasting God who cares for you today will take care of you then and every day.
God will either shield you from suffering, or will give you unfailing strength to bear it.
Be at peace, and put aside all anxious thoughts and imagination.
            I wish I could have one more conversation with my Uncle John, someone who, over the course of my life I’ve come to admire and adore. Though he was sick, he knows what I’ve gone through and I wish he had the resources I now have to fight the dying of the light. But perhaps John’s legacy and my legacy can be a vulnerability about this issue. I am a person who has faced suicide, and I know that through reaching out to my resources I have fought back, and you can too. So take heart, keep the faith, and never ever, ever, ever forget that you are loved.