Sunday, October 9, 2016

Lovers In Dangerous Times: A Sermon Preached by Rob Lee

Jeremiah 29:1, 4-7
A Sermon Preached by the Reverend Rob Lee
Bethesda Presbyterian Church
October 9th, 2016 | The 21st Sunday after Pentecost

Won’t you pray with me?
            Here I raise mine Ebenezer, hither by thy help I’m come. And I hope by thy good pleasure safely to arrive at home. Jesus sought us when a stranger wandering from the fold of God, he to rescue us from danger interposed his precious blood. May I speak in the name of him who interposed his blood for us. In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Amen.

            This past week, my fiancĂ©e’s company lost a co-worker to addiction. The realities of this complex issue of dying to addiction have played out in Stephanie’s life now twice, one in her place of business and the other with her best friend’s brother, and Stephanie and I were sitting with one another after the funeral and she asked me a question about the intricacies of life, death, and God’s place in it all. I didn’t have an answer, and I was ashamed that I didn’t. I mean, I’m a second year divinity school student at one of the most prestigious universities in the county, shouldn’t they be teaching these things? And I couldn’t even offer comfort to the person who I want to spend the rest of my life with. I ask you to hold that image of me being totally and completely lost when asked a question about faith as we move through today’s lesson. We’ll get back to it, I promise.
            I have two friends who I’ve gotten to know pretty well over the past year. I have the privilege of officiating their wedding next August. But if we had lived in the South before 1967 when the Supreme Court struck down the laws barring interracial marriage, this couple could not get married. In my counseling with them preparing for the marriage I asked some initial questions and pondered with them if it would be hard today to be in an interracial marriage in 2016. While we agreed that times have certainly changed since the Jim Crow South, they still are the victim of comments and jokes that strike at a very real reality: We live in dangerous, and unsettling times.
            I don’t have to tell you about our presidential campaign, where hate is being spewed and bigotry uplifted as a means to degrade an opponent. I don’t have to tell you about police violence, I don’t have to tell you about the streets of Chicago. I don’t have to tell you about how the Presbyterian Church is still dealing with the fallout over the gay marriage debate. Now before you tune me out as a rebel rouser who is just here to stir the pot, let me offer you these words from Jeremiah and then I promise I will be a good preacher and know when to sit down.
            Nebuchadnezzar believes he is a god, much like some of our politicians believe. He has taken the Israelites into exile in Babylon and all hope is lost. In Psalm 137 when they talk about the exile by the rivers of Babylon the Psalmist writes, “There we sat down and there we wept when we remembered Zion. On the willows there we hung up our harps. For there our captors asked us for songs, and our tormentors asked for mirth, saying, ‘Sing us one of the songs of Zion!’ How could we sing the Lord’s song in a foreign land?”
            Perhaps you’ve been in this situation, perhaps you’ve felt so far from the love of God that you yourself could not love. This is precisely where we meet the Israelite people today, and this is precisely where we find our country and Church today. We are broken, we are in exile, and we are defeated. The great recession left our nation broken economically, two of the longest wars this nation has seen have left our nation’s spirit broken, and to compound all of that, racism is rearing its head in the ugliest way since that of the Jim Crow laws. And we the church have failed miserably in this exile. We are broken, bruised, and bloodied from low attendance, poor financial planning, and failed church polity. We have buried our heads in the sand and hoping this stuff will pass. So where is the good news in all of this? Where is God in exile?
            God is in Babylon. I think the beautiful part if there is any beautiful part about the exile story in Jeremiah is that though God’s Spirit may have rested in Jerusalem, God was fully with the people by the waters in Babylon. God sent Jeremiah as a prophet to remind the people to love where they are, and love the people they are around, even if they don’t look like you, sound like you, and act like you. You see people will tell you that Nebuchadnezzar is God when the Israelites are in exile, and God has news for Babylon: God will restore the fortunes of Zion. As one of my seminary professors said, “The Babylonians don’t know the rest of the story.”
            My friends if the Babylonians have taken you into exile how are you responding? If you are faced with crippling debt in an uncertain economy, if your son or daughter has gone off to war, if your political party of choice has taken a turn for hate how are you going to act? Jeremiah makes it clear: Pray for the welfare of the city you have been exiled to. That doesn’t mean that you give up what God has given you, it means simply and directly you live in this world and you have to make the best of it.
            If you don’t believe me, look to the Apostle Paul. Paul makes it clear that our citizenship is in heaven and not on earth, we’re exiled here and now. Though we are here we are destined for something different. Now Paul took it to a new level and warned people not to marry due to that impending citizenship of heaven, but I think Paul, for all of his faults, does a good job of saying “Do not be conformed to the image of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds.”
            I want to caution you though, in this Pauline reading of scripture sometimes we get so heavenly minded that we do no earthly good. I think that God of the whole of creation, the God revealed in Jesus Christ in the incarnation and sustained by the Holy Spirit at Pentecost wants Christians, you and me to pray for the welfare of the city in which we have been planted. We must be lovers in dangerous times.
            Now you may ask what does that mean? Well that line, lovers in a dangerous time comes from a song that has lyrics such as these, “You’ve got to kick at the darkness until it bleeds daylight.” You’ve got to plant yourself here, at Bethesda Presbyterian Church and pray for the welfare of your city. You’ve got to plant gardens, and take husbands and wives. God wants you to thrive.
            In my own denomination, the United Methodist Church we are going through a debate that the Presbyterian Church had a few years back surrounding human sexuality. And in the midst of the debate, not speaking to the merits of either side, I just wish both sides would pray for the welfare of our city, pray for the welfare of our denomination. I wish we would break bread with one another, and drink wine. I wish we would gather at a table and instead of throwing insults we would pray and plant gardens.
            Don’t hear me wrong, we have real issues in our time, this is a dangerous time with real problems. But we must be lovers, we must be people who love in fellowship, friendship, policy and understanding. I promise you, if you pray for the welfare of another person who may torment your very soul, your reality will change. For God redeemed us through Jesus Christ, so that we might plant gardens in exile. To be a lover in a dangerous time is to be lost in wonder, love, and praise as that old hymn goes. This is true, even as our churches are failing and dying in mass numbers.
            I have a book coming out here in a month or so, it’s a book on Millennials, people my age who are investing their lives in the institutional church like I am. I don’t know about Bethesda Presbyterian but many of the churches I have encountered are nervous about their future and whether the church will be committed to posterity. Well I want to offer you this: don’t be nervous.
 In my book I interview a friend named Rhody, and in our interview I asked Rhody why she is giving her life to a dying organization like the Church. She said something profound, she said, “There are some holy things, quite simply, that one cannot get outside of the Church. While I can drink wine in community with friends and call it fellowship, I cannot access the sanctified blood of Christ at any ole’ vineyard. While I can bake bread with my grandmother and feel that these moments with her are sacred, I cannot partake of the body of Jesus in her kitchen. And while I can marvel at how clean and renewed I feel as I step out of the shower and call the sensation a moment of grace, I cannot baptize myself. There are moments of fellowship, sacredness, and grace throughout our daily lives, and for these moments, thanks be to God. But I do not believe that these moments are substitutionary for Church and the ways we are blessed specifically through it. And if it is indeed, as you say, a dying organization, then I will sit by her bedside as she moans in pain. I will wear my Easter dress to her funeral and attend with wet, braided hair so that I will feel in all of her looming dampness what she has done for me.”      
Friends, these are dangerous and unsettling times for the church. To borrow from an old song of Americana, the old gray mare, she ain’t what she used to be. We are in exile, and we’ve done it to ourselves much like the Israelites did. But take heart, because what you don’t get in today’s lectionary text is the verse that follows immediately after that.
God says through Jeremiah, “Only when Babylon’s seventy years are completed will I visit you, and I will fulfill to you my promise and bring you back to [Zion].[1] For surely I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope.” If I can offer anything to you today, to you who are lovers in dangerous times, “kick at the darkness until bleeds daylight.” God has not brought us this far to leave the Church here alone. And that is the greatest and fullest hope we have.   
Back to that theological question Stephanie asked me that I couldn’t answer about the realities of life, death, and God’s place in it all. I won’t bother you with the intricacies of the question or theological platitudes that seek to explain away our exile here on earth or why bad things happen to good people, why my friends have to worry about the comments made due to their marriage, or why addiction is even a word in our vocabulary.
But what I do know is this: we are lovers in exile, we are people whom God will visit and bring to the land that God has promised. Take God for God’s word. Keep the faith, and be lovers in dangerous times. Because in our love, in our time, in our sacred space, we will find the welfare of the city we are exiled to, this, our island home. All glory, honor, and power be to the one who was, who is, and who is to come. AMEN.






[1] Zion in here inserted instead of “This place” for clarity.